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Guiding transitions — for people, organisations and a changing world.

Because change always involves loss. And with the right support, it’s possible to grieve fully and live fully — often in the same moment.

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The heart of the work

Change is what happens to us. Transition is what happens within us.

Change is the external event — the diagnosis, the ending, the restructure, the unexpected news. Transition is the internal process we undergo to integrate it. It’s the messy, disorienting, non-linear part so often brushed over. It throws us into disarray. It challenges our identity. It strengthens our character.

And it’s where I do my work.

I’m Nicola — leadership coach, transition guide and grief educator. I walk alongside leaders and individuals navigating the line-in-the-sand moments that turn life upside down, and I help organisations support their people through them.

Why this matters now

Life and work happen. The good bits and the hard bits.

None of us is immune from a life-limiting diagnosis, a chronic health condition, a relationship breakdown, or the illness or loss of someone we love. Add to this a world of work being reshaped by AI — and right now, one in four people in Australian workplaces is experiencing a loss of some kind.

Work keeps going, and before long we expect our people to do the same. But most of us are grief and loss illiterate — not because we don’t care, but because nobody taught us.

Grief needs to be witnessed. When people feel seen and attended to, barriers come down, real conversations happen, and transformation becomes possible.

How I can help

For individuals

Transition guidance and coaching— one-to-one support for leaders navigating an unexpected work or life event. Practical, relational, emotional and developmental guidance for the most difficult chapters. 

Cultivating well— a six-month personal coaching program for professional women ready to enact change in their lives and leadership.

Leadership assessment and coaching — developmental coaching to grow your self-leadership, including The Leadership Circle Profile.

For organisations

Good for your humans, smart for business.

Transition guidance and coaching for your impacted people— so they are not alone, and can return to themselves and their work sooner.

Workplace grief and loss education — growing your internal capability to support people through unexpected work and life events (Coming soon)

About Nicola

I came to this work by living it.

I’ve spent three decades guiding senior leaders through organisational change across the private and public sectors. But my deepest qualification arrived another way: through profound personal loss, and the long journey of integrating it.

I learned that time doesn’t make grief go away — but it doesn’t take love away either. That we can grow around our grief. That with the right support, it’s possible to grieve fully and live fully.

I founded Evolving Leaders in 2014 to evolve the consciousness of leaders and make the world a better place. Today, that purpose has a sharper expression: Building Human Organisations— in a world being reshaped by AI, and through the profound transitions of our time.

I hold a firm belief that every individual possesses the innate resources and wisdom to navigate life’s challenges and grow. It is a privilege to walk alongside those who show up and are supported do this work.

Read my story

Closing Invitation

If you’re in the messy middle of a transition, you don’t have to navigate it alone.

Whether you’re facing an unexpected life event, leading people who are, or simply sensing it’s time for change — I’d welcome a conversation. Thirty minutes, no pitch, no pressure. Come as you are.

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“I cannot speak highly enough of the facilitiators – it was privilege to participate in the Leading Change Program that they facilitated within our workplace. They are a dynamic duo with the extraordinary ability of being able to balance an abundance of knowledge and expertise in leadership development, with a genuine humility and an honest kindness capable of drawing the best out of program participants. Thank you ! Leading Change Participant 2022

 

Testimonials

Nicola shifted us from ‘spinning tops’ out of control to a shared language, values and clear action – University of Melbourne

Peggy Kern – Senior Lecturer, Centre for Positive Psychology, University of Melbourne
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Great Results, High Integrity  – ANZ

Godfrey Boyd – Practice Director ANZ
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Simple Changes that made a real difference – City West Water

Cameron Fitzgerald – General Manager Strategy and Planning
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Innate ability to help individuals to deepen connection and develop greater resilience – iSelect

Elise Morris – GM People and Culture
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Transformed the way we worked together – The Style Co.

Sarah Gonsalves – Co-Owner
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Laid the solid ground work and clear plan for Cultural Transformation – City West Water

David Ryan – Managing Director City West Water
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Sustainable change through knowing self

Vitor Rocha – Palliative Care Lead Murray PHN
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Genuine humility and honest kindness draws best out of participants

Sue Wilson RN PhD- Evaluation and Data Management Lead ,  Murray PHN
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